Эссе "Врать или не врать?"  с переводом

From early childhood to the old age people say that truth is better than a lie, why are so many people being deceived? What makes people speak the truth? I want to say at once that their children we teach them how to lie to yourself. When we offer something недосказать dad or mom or someone else. And I must admit, that always do it out of good intentions. «Lies!» "so we love, to justify their actions. And in the salvation of what or of whom, time will tell. And it really shows, but it is not what we wanted. We begin to lie close to us humans, and we are at a loss wonder WHY? Actually, everything is simple, once my mom or dad just taught, and those who taught them also someone had taught, and with confidence I can say that it is always close to us people, because they we believe unconditionally. And it starts with a «small» lies. For example, answer the phone and say that no one is home, or my mother is very busy and will call back later. Just because my mother did not want to offend people by their refusal, and decided to trick our lips. As a matter of fact taking the responsibility and shifting it to us, and we find ourselves before a choice to play the game or not (to lie or not to lie) and because of its age, most often we are connecting. Or, this happens when, for example, in the garden for a child does not come long-awaited mom or dad, and grandma and to the question of the child: "why are you taking me out of kindergarten?" instead of the truth about where now are the parents (they decided to spend time together without the kids, just relax) say everything except the truth: «the mom and dad a lot of work and therefore , you can stay with me.» If you ask, why it does answer will be "a genius" , in order not to offend the child, because she (he) will want to, too, and then can begin hysterics and...... and then she has deprived the parents of the right to spending time with the child, and the child became the center of the universe and the center of the relations, and all this for the sake of peace. Only peace whom, the grandmother or the child, that is the question! And when the long-awaited return parents, though still opened and the child understands that he had been deceived. And from that moment, the door in front of the «Kingdom of lies open, and legally. Lie to me, lie with me!! It is so addictive that sometimes we lie just out of habit. You can always make a choice, to speak the truth or not. Somebody understands it in 5 years, and someone up to him so much and can't survive! I do not deny that there are moments in life, when the truth really it seems to us cruel and we just because of the nature or of any sort of moral principles cannot say it. And then we take upon itself the role of a sort of «martyrs»who lie for the benefit of, only again the same question: for the benefit of who you are lying, you are afraid to spoil attitudes with the man or you are afraid to show themselves to advantage for your hand. As soon as you ask yourself this question and answer it HONESTLY, not hiding behind a mask of justice or of humility, the answer will come to you. Each person has the opportunity to stop the chain of «learning» bunch of lies. However, as a lie, begins with small and if you start, start with yourself and with time, people who surround you, will thank you. And then it will be possible to tell with confidence, that You have done something difficult, but didn't make a mistake!